What I Have Learned From My Multiple Affairs

They say experience is the best teacher and I can honestly say this was very evident when I ventured into the affair world. People tend to question people’s motives when they have had multiple affairs. The truth is that its hard the find the right person to have an affair with and affairs end for one […]

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How I Craft The Perfect Alibi

My creative mind I inherited from my mother, having watched her painstakingly apply diamanté crystals to my doll’s wedding dress. The affair side of my nature came from my father, although it’s a topic my brother and I debate most Christmases, as to who passed on their cheating genes to us. With every affair, comes […]

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You’re Mine – The Danger Of Possessive Affairs

Some people are born possessive types. It is considered part of their personality. They’ve grown up with emotion or touch or stability refused or neglected by one parent or both and they’ve dealt with rejection by clinging to all that comes their way. They love intensely. They have almost a predatory-like way about them. You […]

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A Failure To Communicate

One of the biggest complaints in the affair world is that there is a lack of communication. More accurately withdrawal of communication. Many affairs begin and the communication is explosive with the pings, pongs and ding dongs that threaten to blow up the phone. Then when interest is established or sex is established, communication can […]

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Is Having An Affair Against The Law?

hile having an affair involves clandestine meetings, sneaking around, deceit and cunning, is it actually a crime? Well, it actual depends on where you live.In some parts of the world, hooking up with someone other than your spouse is not only illegal but it can be punishable by death. Believe it or not, even here in […]

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The Petraeus Affair Timeline

ABC News offers up a timeline for the General Petraeus affair scandal. From their first meeting in 2006 at Harvard University right up until November of 2012 when Jill Kelly was revealed as the source who blew the whistle on Paula Broadwell.  

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Adultery Statistics – Affairs By The Numbers

The National Post has put together an interesting infographic that gives some insight in to who is cheating on their spouses. This was a 2011 Kinsey Institute survey of 918 adults. Some of the more interesting findings?  Only 23% of women having affairs are sexually dissatisfied and only 32% of them are unhappy in their […]

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The Secret Affair Interviews #19

My Husband Is Suspicious   1) Age, sex, marital status 35 female married 2) When did you first begin your affair? How did you meet your affair partner? We met on Ashley Madison. He has a high profile job and sent me a message that I found rather odd. He wouldn’t give any details about […]

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The Secret Affair Interviews #18

My Husband Has Been Depressed For Years   1) Age, sex, marital status 30, female, married 2) When did you first begin your affair? How did you meet your affair partner? About six weeks ago. He is a co-worker and friendly acquaintance of my husband’s. I realized I was attracted to him early in the […]

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The Secret Affair Interviews #17

Third Times A Charm 1) Age, sex, marital status46, Female, Married 22 years2) When did you first begin your affair? How did you meet your affair partner? Have had 3 EMA’s (one at a time, no overlap), met all three on-line. 3) What were the circumstances that led you to having an affair? My husband […]

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