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Ladies: sex w/H then sex w OM - dealing w/semen
August 22, 2011
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OK I haven't seen this, and I have to ask. I'm terrified of H finding out I'm having sex with someone else because of the 'after-effects' from semen. I use vinegar douche, etc., but I know if I can detect residual semen odor, so can the hubs. The H has gotten more amorous, wanting to have sex since I started seeing OM,(I swear he has a sixth sense) and has decided he wants to give me oral (AFTER 18 years of not!!). I'm terrified he'll notice …

anyone else have this issue?!

August 23, 2011
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It's been my habit to not have physical contact with both H or MM within the same 24 hour period. I do this more because the idea of sleeping with either of them on the same day gives me bad vibes but also because it lessens the issues with residual left overs.

Beyond that I like body sprays …. I carry the one I've uses for years in my car just in case.

August 23, 2011
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I definitely won't have sex with om within 24hrs of being with H. We both made that promise to each other. As for H, I try to avoid, but if I absolutely can't get out of it, I won't let him give me oral. I'll just make up some excuse. Hell if it comes down to it, he knows I'm a clean FREAK so I'll say I don't feel comfortable right now.

I keep baby wipes, lotion, and body wash when I see om.

August 23, 2011
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Yeah, I definitely won't be with both within 24-48 hours of each, but the H seems to be developing some acute skills in the observation department. Thanks for the ideas on body sprays, I use perfume so I can try that … I know, not the most 'delicate' of subjects, but a practical matter nonetheless ….

August 23, 2011
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I've noticed that the type of food a man eats sometimes makes a difference in smell. Om1 has virtually no smell at all and I think its awesome. We dont shower b4 we leave each other… It's not necessary… And I have a perverse pleasure in bringing him back with me, so to speak,undetected.

I think there are feminine body sprays that might work well too. I would try to put off H and tell him u have a yeast infection or something til enuf time passes. No reason to alert him, right?

August 23, 2011
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Wow – great topic!! Even though OM and I have not had sex yet, this is a MAJOR concern for me!!! I can def say baby wipes would work well but in NO WAY would I want to have sex with H after sex with OM. That's just ASKING for trouble. Also, what a man ingests definitely changes their odor AND their taste!!! Pineapple juice – make him drink it, you'll like it! LOL

August 23, 2011
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"Mo_reen" wrote: Pineapple juice – make him drink it, you'll like it! LOL

Good tip and very true!

Um…..I mean…..so I've been told….

August 24, 2011
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"Mo_reen" wrote: Wow – great topic!! Even though OM and I have not had sex yet, this is a MAJOR concern for me!!! I can def say baby wipes would work well but in NO WAY would I want to have sex with H after sex with OM. That's just ASKING for trouble. Also, what a man ingests definitely changes their odor AND their taste!!! Pineapple juice – make him drink it, you'll like it! LOL

How far in advance do they drink the pineapple juice for it to make a difference?

August 24, 2011
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I love that everyone is interested!!!

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August 24, 2011
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Another drastic solution:

You could always use a tampon to help soak some of it up immediately after being with OM. Yes, I've actually done this before when I've known that my H was suspicious. And yes I'd rather do that or stoop to any level I need to afterwards to cover my tracks and still be able to enjoy him not wearing a condom. I never told OM. I just quietly took care of it, however.

August 25, 2011
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Diet definitely contributes to the taste, smell and consistency of semen. OM1 has a very healthy lifestyle, exercises a lot, a diet with lots of fruits and veggies, very little red meat and most things he consumes is organic. His taste is so sweet and there is no smell at all. OM3 on the other hand doesn't exercise, eats whatever he wants whenever he wants and his taste and smell is much different, stronger, almost bitter. He always uses condoms but I still need to shower to get his smell off me. Luckily my husband has a very bad sense of smell and I always make sure I have showered or had a hot tub or something before I crawl into bed in case he does feel like getting close.

August 26, 2011
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I always make sure to make an excuse to H the night before i meet with my OM. H has been snipped so can merrily cum inside me and OM likes to give me lots of oral sex so would be so nasty for him. Again the evening after i have been with OM i ward my husband off mainly because OM has given me such a good seeing to i am exhausted and cant take anymore!

August 26, 2011
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I absolutely will not have sex with them within a 24 hour period, just cause it skeeves me out, but I don't have the semen issue anyway. OM wears condoms and H pulls out, per my request.

August 28, 2011
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Guess I'm lucky H only gets it every six weeks. He has never given me oral since we have been together (25) years! I make a point of waiting at least three days just to be safe. My H doesn't even get me ready for sex, so guess that's why I'm having an affair!

August 28, 2011
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I have no problem with it what so ever. Embarassed I just shower normally after sex with OM and that's it. My H never noticed anything unussual.

Come on, few drops of semen (that may come after a normal shower) really can't be noticed. I think you are overreacting.

August 29, 2011
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I just want to say, that unfortunately there has been a couple of occasions where I've ended up having sex with the H less than 24 hours after having sex with my MM, and vice versa. I've never said no to my H in the past, so thought he would suspect something if I started saying no after 20 plus years. I did end up contracting a major yeast infection and gave it to my H. Poor guy shed like a snake and was very sore. It was my first yeast infection in my life and I suspect my MM gave it to me passed on by his W. But I've never asked, didn't know how to.
But my H has never been able to smell my MM on me.

August 29, 2011
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"Anais Nin" wrote: I have no problem with it what so ever. Embarassed I just shower normally after sex with OM and that's it. My H never noticed anything unussual.

Come on, few drops of semen (that may come after a normal shower) really can't be noticed. I think you are overreacting.

I agree…. but imagine our H's horror if they knew :twisted:

August 29, 2011
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"guilty-AS-sin" wrote: I have no problem with it what so ever. Embarassed I just shower normally after sex with OM and that's it. My H never noticed anything unussual.

Come on, few drops of semen (that may come after a normal shower) really can't be noticed. I think you are overreacting.

I agree…. but imagine our H's horror if they knew :twisted:

If he knew the whole thing (EMR) he wouldn't even think about a few drops of semen from another man. He would have bigger shit to digest Laugh

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LOL, Anais…so true :)

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I prefer not to have sex with both H and OM in the same day…but unfortunately…things happen.

1st time: about two months into affair, I had meet OM and spent about 4 hours together. That evening H arrived home and was allow over me. I was terrified…and pacified him with a BJ and telling him I thought I had a "yeast infection".

2nd time: about three weeks later and I was planning to meet OM that afternoon. DH came home around 10:00 AM and was feeling frisky….I did not have an excuse…so I gave him IC and finished him with a BJ. After H went on his way, I called OM and offered to change to another day….he was OK with it. He said he understood and still wanted to meet. So we did!!

3rd time: Just last week and the first time OM and I did not use a condom. We spent largest part of the day together and I got home…cooked dinner…did homework…got kids to bed and guess what? DH is wanting some loving….so I pulled him into the shower, using the excuse I had not showered since leaving the gym earlier in the day ;-0

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