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Marital Bed
April 5, 2011
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Off limits or Who cares?

April 5, 2011
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OFF LIMIT!

April 5, 2011
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I would find it a little creepy, but I could probably get over it if there were no other available options.

On a more practical side, I would be much more concerned about covering the tracks of such a rendezvous…

W: "Why did you wash the sheets?"
Mumbles: "No reason"

W: "Our neighbors saw and extra car in the driveway"
Mumbles: "Jehova's Witnesses"

W: "Why is there long blonde hair in the shower drain?"
Mumbles: "The Jehova's Witness was a mess and asked to use the shower"

W: "Why are there claw marks in the head board?"
Mumbles: "Ummmm….that's what I used to mess up the Jehova's Witness"

April 5, 2011
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OFF LIMITS!!! For all the reasons above and more!!!!

April 5, 2011
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Oh Mumbles you crack me up!!!!!

Not off limits to me, but not my first choice either.

April 5, 2011
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It wasn't (in both of our beds), so I guess the answer was 'not off limits'…of course, we also had a liaison when she came to town to fly to FL with her H and kids, she left him with the kids to 'run errands' for the afternoon then came over to my hotel, then there were rest stops, fields, side roads, living room, hotels, her daughter's room, her basement, my basement, OK, now I'm even creeping myself out…

April 5, 2011
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I love doing it in the marital bed……..it's a huge turn on to me to be so naughty!

April 5, 2011
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Yeah, that was kind of the same for me…

April 6, 2011
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This is my ultimate fantasy! The only thing that I wouldn't like about it would be if the bed smelt like his W in some way. My MM has a few houses and so I have slept and stayed in some of them with him and I have to say, it was immensely satisfying for me to be having sex with him in his own bed. It made me feel all warm and loved and under his protection and I definitely did have some evil feelings of triumph over his W. I think it will be harder for me to get the opportunity to do it in his main family home though as his W never goes out and there are too many people/kids around.

April 6, 2011
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It would be an off limits for me but for different reasons then I saw mentioned. It would turn me on if MM was strong in the idea that he wanted to keep some shred of dignity and respect for W. Vice versa for an OM, if he told me off limits to my marital bed for the same reasons, it would turn me on that he has concern for those issues.

April 6, 2011
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I vote for: Who cares?

This past year I had an unforgettable tryst with a young attractive Intern working at our bank. We had a flirty relationship and I told him I would spend time with him outside of work before his internship was over. Well, I remember looking at my calender and I realized my husband would be in the middle of a business trip on the Intern's last day. So to congratulate him on a job well done with our bank, I invited the Intern to my home for a nice dinner and some drinks. He accepted. We were at it all night and it was extra hot since that was the first time I've had sex with another man in the marital bed. To this day I've only done it just that one time, but I agree with OMx4. There's something about doing it in the marital bed that makes the sex so much hotter. If it's the right situation, I will consider having another rendezvous with a lover in the marital bed.

April 6, 2011
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I'm not in an affair for the rush and excitement, so this seems foolish to me.

If you are in it for the rush and/or unconsciously want to get caught this seems a brilliant approach.

"Most people would rather be certain they're miserable, than risk being happy." -Robert Anthony β€œIt does not take much strength to do things, but it requires a great deal of strength to decide what to do.” ― Elbert Hubbard "The path of least resistance is the path of the loser." - HG Wells
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"ConflictedAffair" wrote: I'm not in an affair for the rush and excitement, so this seems foolish to me.

If you are in it for the rush and/or unconsciously want to get caught this seems a brilliant approach.

Yeah CA….I'm with you. I would prefer not to have to do naughty things

Still, I have to concede PW's point too. The adrenaline that comes from breaking taboos can really amp up the intensity of an encounter. I don't seek it out, but I do acknowledge it.

April 7, 2011
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My MM and I had sex in his bed. It was only 3 times over 8 months, and it was about convenience and comfort. Not the rush. It was however what led to our affair being discoverd. His wife was clearly suspicious and set up a video camera in their bedroom when she went away one weekend… he is now my Ex. In hindsight, clearly it was not our smartest move, but it was wonderful and amazing too!

April 18, 2011
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"ConflictedAffair" wrote: I'm not in an affair for the rush and excitement, so this seems foolish to me.

If you are in it for the rush and/or unconsciously want to get caught this seems a brilliant approach.

I agree with you, CA. Plus, I feel bad enough for his W as it is. I'd feel too bad even setting foot in their bedroom.

April 18, 2011
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"longtimelurking" wrote: OFF LIMITS!!! For all the reasons above and more!!!!

I'm having to recant this statement! :? Does it count that they aren't married??? ;) It was a convenience thing…not a 'rush' at all. I even asked him if he was sure. He assured he had taken all the original bedding off, even down to the pillows. Even if he hadn't, I don't believe there was any turning back at that point anyway. :D

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Lol! Nothing like admitting you were wrong….affairs are humbling experiences, eh? Was it fun? ;)

Yes for me, my bed is the biggest and most comfy in the house, and we tend not to in his as he has a guest bed that is bigger with better soundproofing ;), but I *have* done it in the evil ones bed (ie, his wife's, lol!) and have to admit, it was *awesome*. Like an even bigger victory over she whom I despise.

But we are pretty horrible. We are such regular features at each others houses that our neighbors must just assume we are friends (well, we ARE!). Hell, I have the man's garage code!!! Ok….we definitely trust each other….he essentially gave me the key to his house. Good thing for him I am not a bunny boiler! ;)

April 19, 2011
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Well…it WAS fun as it was our first time together…but I didn't feel any 'rush' from it being their shared bed. Don't know if it was because they aren't married or what. yes! Affairs are very humbling! Embarassed

April 19, 2011
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In some ways it would be thrilling, the ultimate forbidden fruit. But will it never happen,or not likely. We've lived on the same urban block for 20 years, too many neighbors, who see way too much…and even if it never got back to wifey. It would be fodder for gossip, and I can't ever let that happen. So, this brings me to a another future dialog…it seems so much easier to have an EMA in a big city, rather than in a rural town. The OW and I, can drive a few miles away, and just blend in, dissappear into the background. But, we have a vacation house in the woods, in a small town, a population of about 2000 people. And, you just can't disappear there, it's like living on a submarine…there is no privacy. The wrong car, parked in the wrong driveway, for too long, and you are doomed. I met a single Mom up there at a BBQ, and after wifey fell asleep, we started to get very friendly. She was quite willing, but I just had to decline. She is my friend's next door neighbor, so I couldn't exactly park my car in her driveway. So my rural friends, just how do you manage to pull it off. The stakes seem much higher in a small town. So much more risk and pressure.

April 19, 2011
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As the other woman,…. Eeeewwwwwwwwwwwww!

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