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Dressing up in his wife's clothes
April 13, 2011
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My affair wants me to dress up in his wife's clothes when we fuck. Should I be offended or flattered? And any ideas on why that turns him on?

April 13, 2011
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I would not even want to hazard a guess as to why this turns him on. Run. Far. Away.

April 13, 2011
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i think i agree with francesca. at least ask WHY? my first inclination was, "WOW! really?!" yikes.

April 13, 2011
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That would freak me the hell out too!

April 13, 2011
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No Way!! Never gonna happen in my life!!! This guy is a wacka doodle!!!

April 13, 2011
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Sounds like he might just be wanting a sexier, more fun take on his wife. He's fantasizing about her when he's with you! No way would I want that! If he isnt happy with YOU…then like the others said…RUN and fast!

April 13, 2011
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One time I dated a guy who was into golden showers, he on me……..That didn't happen either!!! I ran!!! Just another Wacka Doodle!!!

I don't allow the men I get involved with to disrespect me and dressing up in his wife's clothes is DEFINITELY DISRESPECTFUL to you, not to mention his wife!!!

April 13, 2011
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Look at the bright side. At least he is not dressing up in his W's clothes..:)

April 13, 2011
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Yeh that was my response too. But he also says he fantasizes about me a lot too and gets off on thoughts about me, which struck me as contradictory and also confuses me.

April 13, 2011
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I'm thinking it's more of a FU to his wife…..like having sex in the marital bed type thing. My OM1 scheduled a rendezvous between me and him on he and his wife's wedding anniversary….I see it as that type thing. The only way to know for sure is to ask!

April 14, 2011
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Okay, me and the OW can be a little creative at times, like role playing, and light bondage. It works for us, but his desire seems just a little bizarre. Like, he wants you to become that what she isn't. He wants to create a utopian fantasy about her, not you. I wouldn't play along, you would just be feeding a delusion. I would never make love to my OW, in my home, or in our bed. Both are separate things, and meant to be that way. If he wants to play dress up, tell him to pay up and start shopping for you….Yes, you…not her.

April 14, 2011
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I saw this in a movie once. The guy absolutely hated his wife and wanted his OW to dress up in the wives clothes during sex. Later on, he accidentally strangled her to death during sex as reality and fantasy collided in his brain and he thought he was strangling his wife, not his OW. Kind of kinky though… mmm no, not really, on second thoughts I wouldn't like my MM pretending I was his wife during sex!

April 14, 2011
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My MM can be VERY freaky at times! I would say that wearing the wife's clothes is strange, but like someone said earlier, it could be worse! He could be wearing them!!! :D

April 14, 2011
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That's not my flavor of kink, but whatever works I suppose. I was trying to think how I would feel if my OW asked me to dress in her HB's clothes.

Hmmmm….no. I can't imagine doing it and not feeling completely creeped out by it. I can't imagine even being talked in to it.

April 15, 2011
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I'm sorry. I am open to every form of sexual expression – but this one is a little creepy…..just weird. Tell him to go F his wife if that's what he wants. I don't get it.

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I'm with CA on this one. I'm open to just about anything but that just creeps me out. When I'm having sex with my MM I don't want him thinking about his W at all. YUCK! Ugh, I don't want to think of her either. Oh gosh, there is no way I could wear that woman's clothes. NO WAY! It's bad enough when we're doing it & she calls him six times in a row. :P

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"Metalliccandie" wrote: My affair wants me to dress up in his wife's clothes when we fuck. Should I be offended or flattered? And any ideas on why that turns him on?

That is pretty f*cked up. I would hazard a guess to say that his W doesn't let him do the things he does to you, but he really wants to, so he is pretending you are her instead.

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