A Spectrum Of Cheaters

I tend to think of cheaters as being on a spectrum, kind of like autism (no offense to the autistic).  At one end of the spectrum, you have the folks for whom this was a one off. A drunken, one-night stand at a conference sort of thing. Someone with bad boundaries who does something idiotic […]

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Infidelity In The Digital Age – Infographic

There is no question that the technological age has dramatically changed the way that we communicate with each other. With the rise of Internet marketing, SEO, social networks and smart phones, connecting with people has never been easier. It is no surprise then that the technology is being for more nefarious purposes. Click the image […]

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Discretion and Faith – A Documentary About Infidelity Around The World

Director Michael LaPointe is attempting to raise money to shoot a documentary about how different cultures view adultery. Titled “Discretion and Faith” it is a documentary that will uncover a lot of misconceptions and realities of infidelity from many different cultures around the world. The producers are attempting to raise funding via Kickstarter which allows […]

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Why I’m Thinking About Having An Affair

I’m  married to a good woman, I mean a really good woman. She’s a woman whom undoubtedly gives me her all of her love, and I feel with absolute certainty and trust that she has been faithful to me in our more than 9 years of marriage. It’s the kind of relationship any man could […]

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Video – Why We Love, Why We Cheat

Helen Fisher is an esteemed anthropologist who is a world renowned expert on the topic of romantic love. In this TED talk, she explains the evolution of love along with its biochemical foundations. She talks about how the three primal emotions of Lust, romantic love and attachment while connected, can exist outside of each other […]

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Sex In The Marital Bed – The Ultimate Betrayal?

You are meeting with your affair partner for sexual acrobatics. They can’t host in their dwelling due to lack of privacy and neither of you want to shell out for a hotel at the moment. You can always crumple into a vehicle and have at it like teenagers… or you can take them back to […]

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Infidelity Statistics

While infidelity statistics are known to be be difficult to compile accurately we have compiled some of the more prevalent numbers associated with the subject. Obviously those that have committed  adultery at one time in their lives are not necessarily going to be truthful as it pertains to poll taking. Lets face, it, admitting to having […]

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I Am A Single Man In Love With A Married Woman

So, I am a single man in love with a married woman. On the surface, it seems like EVERYTHING in my relationship is going my way. We are closer than ever. We have gotten past some very dangerous landmines. We are communicating constantly. We see each other 4-5 times per week (sometimes more) for a […]

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The Consequences Of My Husbands Affair

I read recently that people who make the choice to have an affair do not fully comprehend the consequences of their actions.  I believe that is only partially true.  I believe they contemplate the fall out but do not understand the depth.  They also turn a blind eye to what they risk because  they don’t want […]

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Video – Suspicious? Science Explains Why

With some studies suggesting that upwards of 40% of marriages are touched by infidelity at some point during the course of the relationship, it’s not surprising that sometimes couples will become suspicious of each other and believe that their partner is making waves in a waterbed with somebody else.  This short video explores the science […]

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